The Proverbs 31 woman is considered an excellent example of a godly woman, wife, and mother. Some believe this was not a real woman. Whether real or not, the statements ...

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Proverbs 31 Wife or Woman

Your sin nature has a short time frame for satisfaction, so satisfaction is temporary. Much of the problem comes from the judgments on men and women. The primary desire of the ...

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Satisfaction Is Temporary Because of the Judgments

Go back with me to the Garden of Eden. Remember when God told Adam that he was free to choose the fruit from all but one tree of the Garden. ...

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Free to Choose Bad Consequences

Do godly parents have godly children? It would help if you had a truth table to help you answer that question. The answer is significant for your freedom. While you ...

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Godly Parents Have Godly Children – True or False?

While many control people are bad, my speculation is control people often have good intentions – they are usually GOOD PEOPLE UP TO NO GOOD.I am probably the poster child ...

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Good People May Be Up to No Good

Paul's list of bad behaviors in 2 Timothy 3 starts with “men will be lovers of self," then ends it “lovers of pleasure more than lovers of God.”The list speaks ...

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Lovers of Self Rather Than God

God is THE model for freedom in relationships. He is entirely free of any control. So, it is accurate to state that freedom is divine. God is the only being ...

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Freedom Is Divine and Hard to Understand

Is the Image of God easily and simply stated as "Powerful and Relational?" If that theory has merit, it will be supported by God’s Word. That is the best source to ...

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Powerful and Relational – the Image of God in Scripture

Stating we are god-like can be misleading. We are created in the image of God which is the foundation for men's and women's designs. When you see the image of God ...

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In the Image of God? Are You God-like?

The image of God, hormones, and God's attributes don't seem to go together. But, there is a connection; the last two help us understand the first. Then God said, “Let us ...

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Image of God, Hormones, and God’s Attributes

Man's judgment focuses his attention on work and activities, leading him to abdicate leadership in the home and try to control his work. Most of what we said about the ...

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Man’s Judgment and the PROBLEM

The woman's judgment drives her to misuse her God-given relational ability to meet her needs rather than the needs of others. God's design of women gave them a special ability ...

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Woman’s Judgment and the PROBLEM

Love is unselfish and pursues the best for others, but that isn't what the world believes or wants. The exact opposite - self-love - is desired and promoted as what ...

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Love Is Unselfish and Pursues the Best for Others

Structure demands behavior from everyone in everything! The principle of structure is extremely powerful and impacts you physically and mentally.  But what is structure? Don't worry, structure is very practical ...

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Structure Demands Behavior in Everything

Love is always kind and suffers long. So, those two terms are extremely important to understand. One way to see the difference between the two terms is that "suffering long" ...

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Love Is Always Kind and Suffers Long

These 8 Daily Reminders have been great for me. I have them at the end of my daily prayer list. Each one reinforces key Biblical truths that are important to ...

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8 Daily Reminders – Especially in Tough Times

The real love of a husband to his wife has seven different dimensions. Unfortunately, any husband who says that he loves his wife probably doesn't based on what God says ...

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Real Love – 7 Dimensions of a Husband’s Love

Loving husbands are a rare breed because it requires 7 dimensions of love (Ephesians 5:25-33). All 7 dimensions are only possible with the work of the Holy Spirit in his ...

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Loving Husbands Don’t Stay in the Ditches

Marriage failures are part of the many difficulties the judgments on men and women create for relationships and marriage. When you understand the vast impact of the judgments, you begin ...

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Marriage Failures Are Part of the Judgments!

Our society emphasizes self-love and self-esteem. It is one of the most common concepts that self-help material and psychology use. Even beyond those areas, self-love and self-esteem are key foundations ...

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Self-love and Self-esteem – Good or Bad?