You can quickly turn good promises, goals, and commitments into obligations. And, be careful because obligation encourages rebellion. For example, when you think you have no freedom and choice, it ...
Control people are often “good people up to no good”. I could be the poster child for the control person disease. It created severe damage in all my relationships. Control ...
Everyone controls in some way. Control issues are a way of life for us, and unfortunately, a controlling person does not believe they are controlling anyone.Controlling People QuotesThe Dictator's mantra ...
You distort reality with your assumptions, opinions, and guesses. Opinions hurt relationships because you guess what is happening rather than ask for facts. In fact, you create a story about ...
There is a built-in path of least resistance to bad behavior! In fact, mankind's pattern of behaving badly was well stated by Pascal.The doctrine of original sin seems an offense ...
If you want to help someone forgive, use the "Can you - will you - when" technique. It establishes their ability to forgive, then whether they will forgive. It is ...
God wants older men and older women to be examples and help the younger men and women grow in their walk with Him. REAL Older women are "reverent in behavior," ...
Even though the past is OVER, a conflict cycle can remain active. In fact, it often helps you resurrect the past! For example, if you disagree with someone, consider past ...
There is nothing simple about a blended family structure or the effort to make it work well. The nature of blended families creates issues. Unfortunately, the biggest problem is the ...
Suppose a person goes through one or more divorces. But now they are growing in the Lord and learning about marriage and relationships. It would be no surprise that they ...