Forgiveness is not reconciliation. Forgiveness is so good for you, but it gets derailed when you combine it with things like reconciliation. If you think you must reconcile with someone ...

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If you are a control person, can you change? Yes! You can stop trying to get everyone to do life the way you want it. You can lighten your own ...

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Structure demands behavior from everyone in everything! The principle of structure is extremely powerful and impacts you physically and mentally.  But what is structure? Don't worry, structure is very practical ...

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When you have difficulties in a relationship, it is easy to wonder how long it will be a problem. Worse yet, when one person is unwilling to make changes to ...

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As simple as it sounds, freedom used correctly is a radically different way to live. Unless you accept the reality of freedom and choice, you will usually react to and ...

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I believe the unifying theory of life is understanding the image of God and how it applies to all aspects of life, especially relationships. When you think about God and ...

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