If you are a control person, can you change?
Yes! You can stop trying to get everyone to do life the way you want it. You can lighten your own burden and remove the load you have placed on those around you. It only happens when you start practicing freedom not just for you, but also for others.
There are simple tools to use to help add energy back to your life. These tools are easy to apply but do require new thinking about life and others.