You can quickly turn good promises, goals, and commitments into obligations. And, be careful because obligation encourages rebellion. For example, when you think you have no freedom and choice, it ...
You distort reality with your assumptions, opinions, and guesses. Opinions hurt relationships because you guess what is happening rather than ask for facts. In fact, you create a story about ...
There is a built-in path of least resistance to behaving badly! In fact, mankind's pattern of behaving badly was well stated by Pascal.The doctrine of original sin seems an offense ...
Even though the past is OVER, the conflict cycle remains active. In fact, it often helps you resurrect the past! You disagree, then think about past issues with this person ...
I remember back in the 1960's and '70's how a number of Christian writers and thinkers were pushing Jesus' command of "love your neighbor as yourself". You might be thinking, ...
Just Get Out When you live with relationship pain, you often think "give me some relief!" But, God wants you to embrace the pain and trust His complete PERFECTION! Trying ...
What we DO NOT DO has a profound impact on what happens. Consider what each of the four primary characters DID and DIDN'T DO at the time of the original ...
Go to the self-help section of a bookstore and you will find books promoting the "Actor" mistake. You will find authors stating, “If you want to win their heart you ...
When you make the Dictator mistake you may be blatantly trying to do things your way or you are a "good person up to no good". The second approach is ...
Launch Thrive Architect The past cripples relationships, because people do not live in reality about the past. What's the reality? The past is OVER! Even though it's over, it's still ...
