The PROBLEM (making everything about ME - yourself) blossoms into at least 4 relationship destroying mistakes. Each mistake is a form of control that hurts the relationship. Mistake #1 is the POLITICIAN where you "Operate on Opinion and Emotions." You speculate, guess, and assume things about what others are doing, saying, and even thinking. Of course, your opinion and guesses are always right, so even when they disagree with your opinion, you don't believe them, you believe YOU. Then, if needed, your bad thinking drives your emotions to make things worse. Are you operating on opinion and emotions?
The Politician Relationship Mistake
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