Excellent argument. I saw something innately wrong with the self love movement but was never able to figure out exactly what it was. This article did an excellent job illustrating that. In a generation full of narcissist that love selfies and are selfish the self-love movement is actually hurting them.

Regardless of age, or the nature of the professional or personal issues you may be seeking to improve, GR8 Relationships equips you with the tools and strategies to transform and enrich all relationships. 

GR8 relationships enables me to navigate in reality about who I am and who God is in a moment by moment internal conversation with my thoughts. 

GR8 Relationships is great because it helps to have deep understanding about God and of His word regarding relationships with Him and with your neighbors "…godliness has value for all things." (1 TI 8:4). This teaching is sound and gives me every time confidence in any situation – yes, there is God and He can fix the most irreparable relationships. And all you have to do is to "…be strong and courageous!" (JOS 1:6-)

"One who is full loathes honey, but to one who is hungry everything bitter is sweet" (Proverbs 27:7, ESV).

We live in a post-modern world where people will pay anything to be pampered and cozied. Hermann's teachings do exactly the opposite of that. They are bitter, offensive, mind-boggling so many times. But I have always believed that if I'm diving into the Word of God and not being offended or having my mind boggled something is wrong with me. God's truths in Hermann's materials cuts before they heal, which I believe is exactly how it should be. GR8 Relationships has been a turning point in my life. And for that I am eternally grateful!

This is so beautiful. It's so refreshing to hear you teach on this because love is the only thing that can change anyone. I've heard so many men preach on this passage with the main focus being on submission and obedience by the woman. It's been such an excuse for men to abuse their wives. So thank you for sharing the love. It's so encouraging!

As always, the material is so insightful and once I started reading How Did This Happen to Me and What Happened to Us, I couldn't put them down until I finished. Having had the honor to complete the GR8 Relationships videos, I can see how the books would get you hooked and leave you wanting to dive deeper into the GR8 Relationships concepts.

Hermann is the salt of the Earth and his wisdom and willingness to be a vessel for the Lord's work has been life changing for me. The books show that God can turn something negative into something good for His Kingdom. Hermann and Louie are examples of the ripple effect of what their understanding and commitment to freedom can bring. They are transparent and truly live out their solution to pursuing the best for others patiently, kindly, sacrificially, and unconditionally. 

My wife and I have gone through GR8 Relationships a number of times over the years and each time come away with a multitude of insights and practical things that have helped us communicate better, give more grace to one another, and practice living in relationship as God designed. We learned that God's way is always perfect, it brings maximum freedom and flourishing for our marriage. Of course these principles apply to all relationships but we have gained the most value from applying to our marriage.

You are teaching that by not following certain emotional responses, I will be able to make thoughtful decisions rather than the way I previously made choices guided by anxiety, fear, shame, lust, whatever.

The inference is that by doing this, actual corrections in perception and behavior can be made by the individual following this discipline.

If this is accurate, it could be instrumental in changing the lives of millions.

Please, I would appreciate a response.

I find it enlightening and freeing!

GR8 Relationships equips you with the tools and strategies to transform and enrich all relationships.

 God has provided me truth through GR8 relationships, applying that truth and humbly becoming a life long learner through the practical and sometimes difficult application! Praise God for Hermann and his ministry!

This program is awesome!! It has been extremely helpful as a husband a father. God bless Herman, all those who assist him and those who participate in the program!

I have become more self aware and able to change, for the better, how I see and interact with those around me. 

Amazing perspective, and very helpful insight.

The course helped me to heal and grow in ways I didn’t think were possible. 

There have been two specific changes that have been improving my relationships: 1) understanding that people are free to make their own choices and suspending judgment even if I don't agree with their choices; 2) recognizing more often when "ME" is flashing and shifting to "what is best for others."

I know the materials that Hermann uses, and they are great. I have been reading his messages for many years, and I recommend them to our staff. This material is so good it should be a part of every school curriculum.

I can wholeheartedly attest to the positive impact they have had on my life and relationships. 

I have been privileged to take several in-person GR8 Relationship courses led by Hermann Eben. Until then I had often experienced disappointment, frustration, rejection, and other negative feelings in my relationships.

I have learned to notice when my Flashing ME is showing and how it impacts interactions with friends&family and in business relationships. This helps me to focus more on the other person and working with them in a way that they need and helps them most