When you want to be accepted by others you will be controlled by them. Now think about it, it’s their choice whether they will accept you—you must meet their standards ...

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You eliminate freedom and choice when you turn good things into obligations. Almost everything in life can be a have to or want to. A past promise or a goal ...

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As with most of this relationship material, I represent the way to NOT be doing relationships. And, for this control people item, that's me! I speak control fluently and will ...

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It's a very old problem, kids blaming their parents for how they turned out. And from the parents side, taking credit for the kids turning out well or feeling like ...

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When you do not like a person's behavior, you can be controlled, controlling, or concerned about them and their behavior. Since they are free to sin, do you ignore it ...

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Without understanding freedom and control, relationships become intolerable. Freedom is tricky, especially in how it works in relationships. Without freedom in a relationship, you will never know if someone is ...

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Since you don't know about the circles, you can only guess the answer to the question: which circle are you living in? The Left Circle is the most common, and ...

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Forgiveness is not reconciliation. Forgiveness is so good for you, but it gets derailed when you combine it with things like reconciliation. If you think you must reconcile with someone ...

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How is it possible that what attracts you to someone could actually become a big problem later in the same relationship? All couples are faced with this issue, so listen ...

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