If you are a control person, can you change? Yes! You can stop trying to get everyone to do life the way you want it. You can lighten your own ...

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How is it possible that what attracts you to someone could actually become a big problem later in the same relationship? All couples are faced with this issue, so listen ...

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Control people are often “good people up to no good”. I could be the poster child for the control person disease. It created severe damage in all my relationships. Control ...

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Structure demands behavior from everyone in everything! The principle of structure is extremely powerful and impacts you physically and mentally.  But what is structure? Don't worry, structure is very practical ...

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Whenever I hear someone say some version of "they are falling in love," it not only tells me they do not understand love, but also they are unlikely to know ...

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Now that you have reinforced your freedom, you have another, probably more difficult, question to answer. Do you accept freedom for others and God? Do you accept that people and ...

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Love is always kind and suffers long. So, those two terms are extremely important to understand. One way to see the difference between the two terms is that "suffering long" ...

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When you have difficulties in a relationship, it is easy to wonder how long it will be a problem. Worse yet, when one person is unwilling to make changes to ...

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Whenever you feel obligated, you limit your choices. If you pay attention to what you say, you will start noticing your use of three words – should, ought, and must. ...

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