You distort reality with your assumptions, opinions, and guesses. Opinions hurt relationships, because you guess rather than observe what is happening. In fact, you create a story about what's happening! ...

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The PROBLEM (making everything about ME - yourself) blossoms into at least 4 relationship destroying mistakes. Each mistake is a form of control that hurts the relationship. Mistake #1 is ...

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Feelings are assumed to be unlinked from anything else. For example, "I fell in love" presumes that love happens to you and, therefore, it is uncertain whether I will "fall ...

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