When you make the Dictator mistake you may be blatantly trying to do things your way or you are a "good person up to no good". The second approach is ...

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Go to the self-help section of a bookstore and you will find books promoting the "Actor" mistake. You will find authors stating, “If you want to win their heart you ...

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Just Get Out When you live with relationship pain, you often think "give me some relief!" But, God wants you to embrace the pain and trust His complete PERFECTION! Trying ...

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Please observe and describe what you see in the picture before reading further. Notice I did not ask what's your opinion about the picture.When I do this in a group ...

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A life driven by appetites, impulses, and pleasures asks, "What's in it for ME?" Your sin nature is the energy for your "ME" to flash. These "ME" flashing moments, days, ...

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Autopilot for the sin nature leaves us living in the Left Circle—a React/Respond, Slave, Victim lifestyle. Life is an endless chain of events that we just react or respond to ...

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Dealing with a controlling personality can be one of the most challenging and draining experiences in any relationship. Worse yet, when it's a spouse, family member, friend, or co-worker.The Challenge ...

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