Making everything about ME (yourself) blossoms into at least four relationship mistakes. Each relationship mistake damages your relationships.
Relationship mistake #1 is the POLITICIAN where you "Operate on Opinion and Emotions." You speculate, guess, and assume things about what others are doing, saying, and even thinking.
Of course, your opinions and guesses are always right, so even when they disagree with your opinion, you don't believe them, you believe YOU. Then, if needed, your flawed thinking drives your emotions to make things worse.
Are you operating on opinion and emotions?