The Actor relationship mistake is part of all of our relationships at times. It is one of the relationship destroying mistakes that blossoms from the PROBLEM (making everything about ME - yourself).
Each mistake is a form of control that hurts the relationship. The actor relationship mistake is where you "Wear a mask," which is worn for various reasons, and all reasons damage your relationships. Wearing a mask means that the REAL you is not in your relationships. A fake or fantasy you is relating to others, so a real relationship is not possible.
It takes a lot of energy to keep up with who you want to be! Worse yet, the thing you want - acceptance for who you are - can never be achieved while wearing your mask.