Your Freedom Has Two Common Obstacles

Your freedom has two common obstacles that are often hard to see and understand. Both are part of everyday relationships.

The first obstacle shows up when you turn good things into obligations. A past promise or a goal you made can become an obligation. When you do that, you change a “want to” into a “have to,” draining energy from your life.

The same can be true for commitments. They can block our sense of choice in the first place. Worse, commitments are used to manipulate behavior into compliance. For example, your marriage vows are a commitment. Are they a choice or an obligation? Do you have to stay married, or do you want to stay married? How about obedience to God? Do you have to obey God, or do you want to? Do you have to love others, or do you want to?

Notice the Difference

See if you notice a difference when you read the following sentences out loud.

"I have to do what is right."

"I want to do what is right."

There is a profound difference between the two sentences. You do not have to do what is right. You have a choice. If you think you do not have a choice, you believe a lie.

Reality

The reality – you have a choice; you create fiction, thinking there is no choice.

But your freedom has two common obstacles. The second is tied to our desire to be accepted. Watch the video to learn more about both of these obstacles that you allow to restrict your freedom.