The unknown judgment on women has a specific theme and pain that is created for her because of Eve’s sin in the Garden of Eden. And, man is a part of and plays a distinct role in the woman’s judgment, which is evident in daily life. God’s judgment for women is very different than men’s, because of the differences in the way men and women are designed.
While the judgments may not be actually unknown, they are mostly ignored. Every woman and man who has lived, is, and will live is subject to the judgments issued by God. Understanding these judgments is like unlocking the secrets of what drives and motivates bad relationships, awful marriages. As you begin to grasp these all-compassing, profound judgments, you will see them operating in your life in a real way. Just knowing the judgments is most of what you need to identify the difficulties and issues in relationships.
Theme of Her Judgment
To truly understand something, it is helpful to grasp both the “big picture” and the details. If you do not see the theme of the judgments or curses, you will miss why they are so powerful.
Remember the context of the unknown judgment for women? The serpent had a conversation with Eve, then…
Genesis 3:6 (NKJV)— “…the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took the fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate.”
Immediately after Adam and Eve sinned, they saw they were naked, sewed fig leaf clothing, and then they tried to hide from God when He came to walk with them in the garden. When confronted by God, they tried to blame everyone but themselves, which led to the judgments – first on the Serpent, then Eve, and finally Adam.
So, let's look at how God dealt with Eve.
Genesis 3:16 (NKJV)— To the woman He said: “I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; in pain you shall bring forth children; your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.”
The theme reveals itself through the three key elements of the judgment. The first two phrases are about children, and the next two are about the husband. With only that little piece of information, what is the theme?
Can You See the Theme?
You are correct! It is about relationships, specifically how they affect women, primarily within the family. The impact extends not only to the family but also to relationships in general, particularly those between men and women.
Now, why is this judgment on women so penetratingly perfect?
Do you remember how a woman is designed? The one word to remember about women's design is…
RELATIONAL
Notice how bad this judgment is! God designed a woman to be relational, but this judgment now makes it difficult to fulfill her relational design.
Ladies, each of you experiences this daily if you are not doing what God asks you to do. By God’s extraordinary grace, there is a solution, but if you are operating on AUTO-PILOT, your sin nature is driving you to live in your judgment.
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