Titus chapter 2 verses 1 and 3-5 clearly state that REAL women are TOUGH - Tender, Open-hearted, Ultimate Godlike Helpers (TOUGH). REAL women are TOUGH and are as rare as REAL men. REAL ...

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REAL Women Are TOUGH!

In the digital age, advice is readily available at our fingertips. From Reddit relationship advice threads to self-help books, there's no shortage of guidance on how to navigate our relationships. ...

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What is the Best Relationship Advice? Trusting Reddit Relationship Advice or God’s Word

Understanding conflict, especially internal conflict, is critical because it isn't necessarily negative; it can be a catalyst for change and a tool for personal growth. Let's look at the foundational ...

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Unraveling Internal Conflict: A Deep Dive into Conflict in Our Lives

Forgiveness is indeed a Divine action. That implies that unforgiveness and bitterness are from your sin nature and, ultimately, Satan. Forgiveness is one way you can be like God. Without ...

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Unmasking Unforgiveness: Defining Bitterness and Exploring its Physical Impact on Your Body

You can quickly turn good promises, goals, and commitments into obligations. And, be careful because obligation encourages rebellion. For example, when you think you have no freedom and choice, it ...

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Obligation Encourages Rebellion and “Have To”

Everyone controls in some way. Control issues are a way of life for us, and unfortunately, a controlling person does not believe they are controlling anyone.Controlling People QuotesThe Dictator's mantra ...

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Spotting the Signs: Understanding Control Issues and Recognizing a Controlling Person

You distort reality with your assumptions, opinions, and guesses. Opinions hurt relationships because you guess what is happening rather than ask for facts. In fact, you create a story about ...

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Opinions Hurt Relationships, So Do Assumptions

There is a built-in path of least resistance to behaving badly! In fact, mankind's pattern of behaving badly was well stated by Pascal.The doctrine of original sin seems an offense ...

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Behaving Badly Is Very Easy for Everyone

If you want to help someone forgive, use the "Can you - will you - when" technique. It establishes their ability to forgive, then whether they will forgive. It is ...

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Do You Have the Ability to Forgive?

God wants older men and older women to be examples and help the younger men and women grow in their walk with Him. REAL Older women are "reverent in behavior," ...

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REAL Older Women Are Rare

Even though the past is OVER, the conflict cycle remains active. In fact, it often helps you resurrect the past! You disagree, then think about past issues with this person ...

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Conflict Cycle – You May Be There Now

There is nothing simple about a blended family structure or the effort that will be needed to make the structure work well. The very nature of blended families creates problems. ...

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A New Blended Family Structure

People Say   Suppose a person goes through one or more divorces. But now they are growing in the Lord and learning about marriage and relationships. So, it is no surprise ...

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What About Remarriage After Divorce?

Just Get Out When you live with relationship pain, you often think "give me some relief!" But, God wants you to embrace the pain and trust His complete PERFECTION! Trying ...

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Relationship Pain: I Just Want Out!

God made men and women different by design, not by their decision. And those design differences are the foundation for a complimentary relationship. But Satan uses the differences to create ...

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Different by DESIGN not by Decision!

The painful problem for men is primarily unknown. It is not a secret or hidden, but men and women don't know about it. It is part of God's curses or judgments ...

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Painful Problem for Men

The painful problem for women is primarily unknown. This problem for women isn't a secret, and it's not hidden, but men and women don't know about it. It is part ...

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Painful Problem for Every Woman

REAL men are Godly examples practicing sound doctrine and sound speech. You can find these excellent attributes in Titus 2:1-8.REAL Men Are Godly ExamplesAddressing Titus as a younger man, Paul ...

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REAL Men Are Godly Examples

A blended family is a common situation in society, but there are unique and complex difficulties in that type of family system.  The book Old Loyalties, New Ties by Emily ...

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A Blended Family: 7 Stages – 8 Steps

Culture is against REAL men and women. Much of the world, especially Western culture, is drowning in male and female confusion. What is a REAL man or REAL woman? How ...

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REAL Men Are Rare and REAL Lovers